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WhatGenDoesntSayAloud's avatar

not gonna like, there’s many factors as to why this would take place but the one i’d like to start of with is comfort and accountability. a lot of us, unfortunately, find comfort in sadness and solidarity to the point of no return and that’s when the unhealthy codependency of romanization takes place. it’s an escape of acceptance of how this is not normal, safe or okay. for someone people, this kind of dissociation is keeping them alive, especially if they’re aware of their helplessness.

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anaïs's avatar

they probably think that it makes them more emotionally intelligent/sensitive when you suffer from some turmoil....

ALSO stupid substack removed my subscription. i'm sorry if i subscribed again 😭

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